I have no problem letting the thread stay open for discussion, if its OK with you tehfallen?
Rattus, after a post like yours some of us are struck speechless. You hit the nail on the head.
Take me for example. I am a peaceful builder who raids the occasional inactive for building materials and luxury goods. Most everyone leaves me alone while I proceed with my quiet building. They do this, in my mind, because I have a top 100 military score and keep a floater at the ready in case anyone does come to call. I get my stuff back and more. (Of course, the 100 levels of warehouse in each of my towns means they probably didn't get much to start with.)
The building is the long term goal and fun for me, but the occasional adrenaline spurt while fighting keeps it interesting.
Well balanced in my mind. But don't let me rain on anyone else's thunder, we all play our own way.
CWB